noteven Posted June 5, 2019 Report Share Posted June 5, 2019 (edited) delete Edited June 7, 2019 by noteven Quote "Are we there yet?" asked no motorcycle rider, ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richfaa Posted June 5, 2019 Report Share Posted June 5, 2019 I am glad to accept help if I need it and we have several times. We have also offered help more than once and never had a bad experience with anyone. Quote Helen and I are long timers ..08 F-350 Ford,LB,CC,6.4L,4X4, Dually,4:10 diff dragging around a 2013 Montana 3402 Big Sky SKP 100137. North Ridgeville, Ohio in the summer, sort of and where ever it is warm in the winter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthew Posted June 5, 2019 Report Share Posted June 5, 2019 "You need help? "YES! While I finish setting up could you pull out the cassette black tank and dump it? It overflowed on the trip here and...wonder where the 'help' went?" 😀 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FL-JOE Posted June 6, 2019 Author Report Share Posted June 6, 2019 20 hours ago, Matthew said: "You need help? "YES! While I finish setting up could you pull out the cassette black tank and dump it? It overflowed on the trip here and...wonder where the 'help' went?" 😀 Since I generally don't see much gray in a situation, only black and white, I would pull his cassette tank out for him, dump it next to his RV, replace it and then ask if there was anything else I could do for him...….wonder where my new neighbor went? Quote Joe & Cindy Newmar 4369 Ventana Pulling 24' enclosed (Mini Cooper, Harley, 2 Kayaks) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthew Posted June 6, 2019 Report Share Posted June 6, 2019 Just now, FL-JOE said: Since I generally don't see much gray in a situation, only black and white, I would pull his cassette tank out for him, dump it next to his RV, replace it and then ask if there was anything else I could do for him...….wonder where my new neighbor went? Good come back! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirk W Posted June 6, 2019 Report Share Posted June 6, 2019 3 hours ago, FL-JOE said: I would pull his cassette tank out for him, dump it next to his RV, replace it and then ask if there was anything else I could do for him...….wonder where my new neighbor went? Leaving the mess for park staff to clean up? Having been a campground host, I don't see much gray in this one either.... 😝 Maybe just some smart remark might be sufficient to put the guy where he belongs? (I think I saw that commercial too!) Quote Good travelin !...............KirkFull-time 11+ years...... Now seasonal travelers.Kirk & Pam's Great RV Adventure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FL-JOE Posted June 7, 2019 Author Report Share Posted June 7, 2019 Come on Kirk, are you kidding me? Matthew and I were not serious with either of our posts. It is called joking, you know, humor? You should try it sometime. Quote Joe & Cindy Newmar 4369 Ventana Pulling 24' enclosed (Mini Cooper, Harley, 2 Kayaks) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matthew Posted June 7, 2019 Report Share Posted June 7, 2019 (edited) 1 hour ago, FL-JOE said: Come on Kirk, are you kidding me? Matthew and I were not serious with either of our posts. It is called joking, you know, humor? You should try it sometime. Agree, meant as humor. Edited June 7, 2019 by Matthew Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RV_ Posted June 7, 2019 Report Share Posted June 7, 2019 Good wordplay, and funny. Quote RV/Derekhttp://www.rvroadie.com Email on the bottom of my website page.Retired AF 1971-1998 When you see a worthy man, endeavor to emulate him. When you see an unworthy man, look inside yourself. - Confucius “Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.” ... Voltaire Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carlos Posted June 7, 2019 Report Share Posted June 7, 2019 Satire is a gray area of communication. Some may call it a black art. You have to use your gray matter well to understand it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirk W Posted June 7, 2019 Report Share Posted June 7, 2019 4 hours ago, FL-JOE said: Come on Kirk, are you kidding me? Matthew and I were not serious with either of our posts. It is called joking, you know, humor? You should try it sometime. Just so that it is a joke, as was the comment about emptying the cassette which you responded to. Your reply didn't sound much like laughter.. 😁 Quote Good travelin !...............KirkFull-time 11+ years...... Now seasonal travelers.Kirk & Pam's Great RV Adventure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FL-JOE Posted June 8, 2019 Author Report Share Posted June 8, 2019 As usual Kirk, you are correct. Matthew wasn't using humor, I wasn't using humor, you caught us, good job. Quote Joe & Cindy Newmar 4369 Ventana Pulling 24' enclosed (Mini Cooper, Harley, 2 Kayaks) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darryl&Rita Posted June 8, 2019 Report Share Posted June 8, 2019 I'm starting to see why you might have been turned away. Quote I have been wrong before, I'll probably be wrong again. 2000 Kenworth T 2000 w/N-14 and 10 speed Gen1 Autoshift, deck built by Star Fabrication 2006 smart fourtwo cdi cabriolet 2007 32.5' Fleetwood QuantumPlease e-mail us here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FL-JOE Posted June 8, 2019 Author Report Share Posted June 8, 2019 I see humor isn't your strong suit either. Quote Joe & Cindy Newmar 4369 Ventana Pulling 24' enclosed (Mini Cooper, Harley, 2 Kayaks) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Happy Posted June 22, 2019 Report Share Posted June 22, 2019 The first year as a camp host I had a nice lady come into our park with a small toy hauler trailer (25 footer). She has been coming into this park for years for the whole 5 month season. And she had made reservations for a certain site that was on back row in a corner, which means it was kind of problem to get backed into. Not having met this nice lady before I went over and asked if she needed help getting backed in. And I was told right off that she had been doing this for years, and I quote, "I''ve got my own way of doing this, so now go away". And believe me when I say, I never offer to help her out again that whole summer. And I can now say that after 3 years as the camp host at this same park, "I've seen it all". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Martin Posted July 1, 2019 Report Share Posted July 1, 2019 There are many of us out there that gratefully accept most any help offered. Lifelong boater, but new camper. I pulled a new 5th wheel for the 1st time a couple months ago. I feel I am a capable guy, but I was apprehensive about my inexperience. My maiden voyage - my first campground, I was lucky enough to pull in beside a retired Navy veteran in an older 5th wheel, that after he realized by my comments that it was my first set-up outside of the dealership training - which was rushed, spent a hour over my shoulder explaining every move I needed to make. I didn't ask for or need all of this - honestly, but I was very appreciative of all of it nonetheless. My maiden voyage was without incident and this played a part. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SnowGypsy Posted July 1, 2019 Report Share Posted July 1, 2019 I have seen people who simply do not pick up on "cues" given off by the other person making that person have to be less subtle in handling the, well, social misfit who can't take a hint. Also, when it comes to "joking", it can be really hard to tell these days, because society.........Look at the "funny" videos where people are falling, babies crying, dogs crashing into the cupboard....... Not funny to everyone. We went out yesterday morning and a lady alone about our age said this would be her first time disconnecting and getting ready to pull out and was hoping it went well. I told my husband "Come on." and told her we were there to supervise. Her son lived in town and hooked up/tightened up all the fittings. My husband loosened the fittings after she tried and we gave her some other tips that she thanked us for several times. This was her maiden voyage. If you know how to "feel" people out (take a hint), I don't think you'll have a problem. Quote Cathy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mptjelgin Posted July 1, 2019 Report Share Posted July 1, 2019 13 minutes ago, SnowGypsy said: I have seen people who simply do not pick up on "cues" given off by the other person making that person have to be less subtle in handling the, well, social misfit who can't take a hint. I think that this is key. If you see someone that you think needs help, offer it. If they accept then you are in business. Martin gives a great example of such an interaction a couple of posts up. But if they choose to wave you off, accept it and move on. For whatever reason they don't want your help, and that should be the end of that interaction. If you decide to take it personally or decide to never speak to that person again, that's on you. Quote Mark & Teri 2021 Grand Designs Imagine 2500RL, 2019 Ford F-350 Mark & Teri's Travels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
$ Spot Posted July 1, 2019 Report Share Posted July 1, 2019 Martin's post is a great example of courtesy and the community found among some RVers. His neighbor received a vibe from Martin, either implied or explicit, on Martin's 5er experience and wanted to be of some help and Martin was courteous enough to just let it happen. They each made a friend or in the least had a nice time, and I'd wager that their next meeting will be a pleasant one. Spot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FL-JOE Posted July 2, 2019 Author Report Share Posted July 2, 2019 Being courteous and at least offering help doesn't have to stop with just fellow RVers either. Yesterday we had taken a motorcycle ride over to Devil's Tower. There were 6 of us taking a break (3 couples) at the visitors center. We spotted a couple in their 70's coming down the sidewalk in the crowd. He only had a cane but was obviously in distress. He could only barely put pressure on one leg and was taking small 5" or 6" steps. We went over to see if we could help. He accepted and we helped him balance and move another several feet while his wife went to get the car. We had to more or less lower him into the passenger seat. He wasn't sure what had occurred with his leg but they were headed to the ER. This was just a natural reaction for us. It was not a natural reaction for the other 100 to 150 folks that were in the immediate area and probably witnessed this couples issue. Quote Joe & Cindy Newmar 4369 Ventana Pulling 24' enclosed (Mini Cooper, Harley, 2 Kayaks) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big5er Posted July 6, 2019 Report Share Posted July 6, 2019 On 6/8/2019 at 7:01 AM, Darryl&Rita said: I'm starting to see why you might have been turned away. 🤣🤣🤣 Quote MY PEOPLE SKILLS ARE JUST FINE.~It's my tolerance to idiots that needs work.~ 2005 Volvo 780 VED12 465hp / Freedomline transmission singled mid position / Bed by Larry Herrin2018 customed Mobile Suites 40KSSB3 2014 smart Fortwo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FL-JOE Posted July 7, 2019 Author Report Share Posted July 7, 2019 Good one there slim. Quote Joe & Cindy Newmar 4369 Ventana Pulling 24' enclosed (Mini Cooper, Harley, 2 Kayaks) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frater jason Posted July 13, 2019 Report Share Posted July 13, 2019 I enjoy helping when I can. I gratefully accept offers of help when I need it. I decline when I don't need it. I don't enjoy receiving lectures, scolds, or blowhards relentlessly berating others with poorly-informed opinion presented as fact. (in general, not referring to this thread) I have learned to quickly ID the "helpful" slingers of BS by the use of words/phrases like these: junk nothing but problems you can't you have to what you want to do is... and the overuse of imperatives As Bernard Russell reportedly said: Quote The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts. As far as offering help to single women, I do not take zero-upside risks that could upend my life in a moment. I am helpful if they request it or initiate conversation. Quote -- 2017 Promaster 159" , 570W mono, 220AH FLA blog | RVwiki project Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little•Sister Posted July 31, 2019 Report Share Posted July 31, 2019 On 6/1/2019 at 3:59 PM, rm.w/aview said: Wonder, is this related to topic? Oh thank you so much. I laughed till I cried. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
packnrat Posted August 12, 2019 Report Share Posted August 12, 2019 if you really want to get them mad, set up chairs, tables and cold drinks. then sit back and watch the show. and do not forget to post up the videos. some just refuse any/all help. some are just embarrassed to ask, or accept help. some think they know it all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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