If you can handle the slightly rougher ride of a Wrangler, along with the fuel mileage, I think you'll find the "Death Wobble" to be over-rated. It's causes are known, and easily remedied, if people are willing to listen. They're easy to put into "Tow" mode, and just as easy to return to driving.
You need to look in the mirror, and be honest with yourself. There's a lot of better vehicles, where better means lighter, quieter, or more fuel efficient, but they're not a Jeep.