RV_ Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 Excerpt: "WILMINGTON, N.C. -An Air Force veteran who served in Kuwait found a note on her car Friday criticizing her for parking in a veterans-only parking spot in Wilmington. Mary Claire Caine told WECT-TV that she returned to her car from shopping at Harris Teeter to find a note plastered to her front window from a person identifying themselves as a "Wounded Vet." It read, "Maybe [you] can't read the sign you parked in front of ... This space is reserved for those who fought for America ... not you. Thanks, Wounded Vet." Caine, who served in Kuwait and on the flight line of the F-117 Nighthawk, said her heart sank. "The first thing I felt was confusion that there was a mistake, and that I had to talk to this person and ask them why they were so quick to assume I wasn't a veteran and that I was taking privileges that didn't belong to me," Caine said. Caine said she got angry at herself when the note left her wondering, "Am I a worthy enough veteran to park in this spot?" So she waited by her car in hopes the "Wounded Vet" would return and she could ask why they felt the need to leave the note. She said no one returned." The rest of the text article, and several videos with her that can be clicked are here: http://www.wncn.com/story/27885839/female-veteran-shamed-for-parking-in-veterans-only-spot RV/Derekhttp://www.rvroadie.com Email on the bottom of my website page.Retired AF 1971-1998 When you see a worthy man, endeavor to emulate him. When you see an unworthy man, look inside yourself. - Confucius “Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.” ... Voltaire Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronbo Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 She needs to not get so emotional about it. I wonder what she does if someone hooks at her when she doesn't go fast enough at a red light. Ron C. 2013 Dynamax Trilogy 3850 D3 2000 Kenworth T2000 Optimus Prime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lenp Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 Kind of like some of Vietnam vets felt when we came home! Sorry to hear about Ms. Caine's encounter. The vast majority of us vets DO recognize our female comrades! Lenp USN Retired 2002 Winnebago Ultimate Freedom 2012 F150 4x4 2018 Lincoln MKX 2019 HD Ultra Limited Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigjim Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 ronbo I do not know your intent but to me your post came across wrong. We don't have enough information to make a true judgement. Thats a lot like telling someone who has lost a loved one just get on with it. Everyone does at their own time if at all. Human nature makes a lot of us jump to conclussions without facts. How do we know if it really was a wounded vet that left the note? Again not enough facts. I have a handicap placard that I used to need a lot. Now I only use it on rare occaisions when I am doing really bad. You can not tell about my issues by looking at me. I once had a blast from some jackass that jumped to a conclusion when I did use it in a handicap spot tryin to just get into the pharmacy. I must have looked bad because people kept coming up to me asking me if I was alright. Fortunately for me I got better eventually. Embarrassing as it is I was once a jackass in my judgement of some using handicap spots although I didn't confront them. I am sure there are a lot of cheaters but you can't always tell the real ones from the fakes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RV_ Posted January 23, 2015 Author Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 Well said Jim. You can't tell with me unless you watch closely getting out and the first few steps until I shake it off. Mine are permanent on my plates. RV/Derekhttp://www.rvroadie.com Email on the bottom of my website page.Retired AF 1971-1998 When you see a worthy man, endeavor to emulate him. When you see an unworthy man, look inside yourself. - Confucius “Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.” ... Voltaire Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AprilWhine Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 ronbo I do not know your intent but to me your post came across wrong. We don't have enough information to make a true judgement. Thats a lot like telling someone who has lost a loved one just get on with it. Everyone does at their own time if at all. Human nature makes a lot of us jump to conclussions without facts. How do we know if it really was a wounded vet that left the note? Again not enough facts. I have a handicap placard that I used to need a lot. Now I only use it on rare occaisions when I am doing really bad. You can not tell about my issues by looking at me. I once had a blast from some jackass that jumped to a conclusion when I did use it in a handicap spot tryin to just get into the pharmacy. I must have looked bad because people kept coming up to me asking me if I was alright. Fortunately for me I got better eventually. Embarrassing as it is I was once a jackass in my judgement of some using handicap spots although I didn't confront them. I am sure there are a lot of cheaters but you can't always tell the real ones from the fakes. Thank you bigjim. I recently turned 60 and am retired DoD and military veteran. I would not have taken that parking space because I am able to walk from the outer parking lot. I would have inferred that the veteran parking spot should be saved for a combat wounded and currently handicapped veteran. But the "wounded veteran" who left the note is a wanker. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronbo Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 I too am a veteran. I am also on disability with a placard. The article says nothing about the spot being for disabled, only for veterans. If the person only left a note and did not stick around they are a coward. I think she is making way too big a deal about this. She needs to go on about her business and not take it so personal. It wasn't a personal attack. They just wanted a real one out of her. Why give them what they want. Life is too short. Ron C. 2013 Dynamax Trilogy 3850 D3 2000 Kenworth T2000 Optimus Prime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SIBERNUT Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 Always two sides to everything. I in my area have never seen a space for a "veteran". If she feels so proud of her service, there's plenty of decals she could apply to her back window or bumper to say so. 2000 Volvo 635 A/S, N-14 Cummins"The Phoenix"'03 KA 38KSWB http://s918.photobucket.com/user/sibernut/library/?sort=6&page=1Furkids- Sibe's CH. Sedona & Tseika Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lasttruck Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 There are enough veterans out there that feel if one did not serve in a war zone, in combat, they are not a true or full veteran and do not deserve some "benefits". Some of those also feel that if you did not serve 20 or were medically retired, you do not deserve the veteran title. I can understand her frustration. Jim & Vickie'07 F150'10 Chalet XL1935Chimacum, Wa Evergreen Coho SKP Park Website: http://www.evergreencohoskprvpark.com/ Evergreen Coho SKP on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Evergreen-Coho-SKP-RV-Park/563601217103332 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ronbo Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 No need to apply decals. She is a veteran and entitled to use the space. I say use it. I just think it is a waste of time to go all emotional and wonder if I am worthy of using it. Ron C. 2013 Dynamax Trilogy 3850 D3 2000 Kenworth T2000 Optimus Prime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigjim Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 I did not mean to sound like ronbo meant any harm and he has pointed out the fact that it just said Veteran which is something I have not seen either. I may feel somewhat the same as him about moving on but reallistically not everyone can, just move on, and that is the part that sounded wrong. And from what I understand that can be one of the worst things you can tell some people who are in mental distress or grieving. I am 67 and have adapted pretty well but I have some issues going way back that I have not gotten over. I have just adapted. Even with my handicap placard, I have a hard time making myself use it when I need it as I know there are some that need the spot more than me. Just based on what I know from what is availabe I probably would not have taken the spot even though I would be entitled but thats just me. I usually park at the outer edges of the parking lots as I hate the traffic and tight spots. Of course if I park at the far end with 50 spaces clearance, when I come out someone will have parked right next to me so close I can hardly open the door. Mr. Murphy and his law again I guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinsa Posted January 23, 2015 Report Share Posted January 23, 2015 nm Stephen & Karen and our six boys, ages 21, 21, 19, 17, 14, & 11 Stephen - Military retiree (as of summer 2012) & current DOI employee (Big Bend National Park) Karen - Homeschooling stay-at-home mom & veteran San Antonio, Texas Fulltimed May 2013 - July 2014 (yes, all eight of us!) Open Range "Rolling Thunder" (H396RGR - fifth wheel toy hauler bunkhouse) - SOLD Ford F-350 diesel dually - for the camper Ford E-350 fifteen passenger van - for the crew Our unfinished travel blog: http://coach-and-six.blogspot.com/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigjim Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 If you don't know ask. What is nm? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skp51443 Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 If it means "I deleted my post" it would be better to just say "deleted" then the weekend mods have permission to tuck it out of sight. Silly forum won't let users delete unwanted posts, either on content or duplicates. I looked at this topic and deleted my post, thankfully before I hit the post button. First rule of computer consulting: Sell a customer a Linux computer and you'll eat for a day. Sell a customer a Windows computer and you'll eat for a lifetime. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinsa Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 It's internet shorthand for "Nevermind". In other words, I had second thoughts, so I deleted what I had written. Stephen & Karen and our six boys, ages 21, 21, 19, 17, 14, & 11 Stephen - Military retiree (as of summer 2012) & current DOI employee (Big Bend National Park) Karen - Homeschooling stay-at-home mom & veteran San Antonio, Texas Fulltimed May 2013 - July 2014 (yes, all eight of us!) Open Range "Rolling Thunder" (H396RGR - fifth wheel toy hauler bunkhouse) - SOLD Ford F-350 diesel dually - for the camper Ford E-350 fifteen passenger van - for the crew Our unfinished travel blog: http://coach-and-six.blogspot.com/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamtracy Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 I'm a 20 year HUMBLE Navy Vet and would personally not park in a space with that sign. Not because I'm not proud, on the contrary I'm very proud of my service and I like my retirement check. If I saw a space like that and saw the person park there I would probably go up and shake their hand and thank them for their service. I think that is great that an establishment would have "VET" parking spaces. As humble as I feel I would never ever let anyone make me feel bad about being a VET. Period. James 2024 GMC 3500HD DRW Denali Diesel 2019 Keystone Avalanche 396BH USN Retired Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RV_ Posted January 24, 2015 Author Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 Amen James, That I can agree with. RV/Derekhttp://www.rvroadie.com Email on the bottom of my website page.Retired AF 1971-1998 When you see a worthy man, endeavor to emulate him. When you see an unworthy man, look inside yourself. - Confucius “Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.” ... Voltaire Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phaeton10 Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 To me it is great that a business appreciates our vets. I have HC plates on my auto and some times I use a HC spot and some time I don't depends upon how the old body feels that day. I am 100% SC. This sign for the vets is likely be misused just like the business that have a parking space for expectant mothers. I saw a young lady park in one of those spots yesterday and she sure didn't look like an expectant mother, but how can you tell, just like a vet, how can you tell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigjim Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 There are so many vets out there that I see it as problem to a certain degree and might be better if it said diabled vet or something. Just my observation altough I appreciate the sentiment. I wonder about the exact wording. If it just says VET it might be for a Veteranairian. Went back and looked at the news link and turns our I was all wet about the sign but I still think I was funny about the veteranarian. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dog Folks Posted January 24, 2015 Report Share Posted January 24, 2015 A person/can be shamed only if they ALLOW to be shamed. I am thankful for her service, but think she needs some help, if she doubts her "worth" just because of a note written by a arrogant, know it all. Camping Rig: 2005 Dodge 3500 - Dually- Cummins 2006 Outback 27 RSDS Two rescue dogs: A Catahoula mix & a Chihuahua mix. Fulltimer since 2006 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gypsydan Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 I think this particular theme needs to be closed, as there were to many judgements made by men on this forum about the woman's character who started this theme. She stated a logical complaint, and was supported by many, but unfortunately was attacked by some who obviously seemed of the type who left the note. 2009 Four Winds Chateau - 25' class C 2002 Chevy Tracker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyberdave Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 Amen James, That I can agree with. X2 Dave & TishBeagle Bagles & Snoopy RIP Snoopy we lost you 5-11-14 but you'll always travel with us On the road somewhere.AF retired, 70-90A truck and a trailer“He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion” -unknown HoD vay' wej qoH SoH je nep! ngebmo' vIt neH 'ach SoHbe' loD Hem, wa' ngebmo'. nuqneH... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DuffMan Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 I think this particular theme needs to be closed, as there were to many judgements made by men on this forum about the woman's character who started this theme. She stated a logical complaint, and was supported by many, but unfortunately was attacked by some who obviously seemed of the type who left the note. Uhhh - This thread was started by RV who, I don't believe, is of the female persuasion. Amazing that some want a thread closed when they don't agree with the views of some posters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyberdave Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 Military females still have to fight for respect... Ridiculous. Any and all Vets deserve respect esp from other Vets!! We know nothing about her is she suffering from PTSD? Does she have other experiences that impact her? What if she's been criticized and is now almost ashamed for her service? How in !@#%%$ hell do we know? It's a shame that some vets here think it's more important to strut and boast of their prowess rather than even try to understand.. It's a shame.... I'd be disgusted with myself were I one of you. Dave & TishBeagle Bagles & Snoopy RIP Snoopy we lost you 5-11-14 but you'll always travel with us On the road somewhere.AF retired, 70-90A truck and a trailer“He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion” -unknown HoD vay' wej qoH SoH je nep! ngebmo' vIt neH 'ach SoHbe' loD Hem, wa' ngebmo'. nuqneH... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyberdave Posted January 25, 2015 Report Share Posted January 25, 2015 Uhhh - This thread was started by RV who, I don't believe, is of the female persuasion. Amazing that some want a thread closed when they don't agree with the views of some posters. Uhhh, no, he isn't. Dave & TishBeagle Bagles & Snoopy RIP Snoopy we lost you 5-11-14 but you'll always travel with us On the road somewhere.AF retired, 70-90A truck and a trailer“He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion” -unknown HoD vay' wej qoH SoH je nep! ngebmo' vIt neH 'ach SoHbe' loD Hem, wa' ngebmo'. nuqneH... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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